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How to Make Decisions

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We are where we are today, because of decisions that we made. Life is a journey, it’s a long road with many junctions, it’s a giant maze. The junction you and I chose to follow determine our destination, and determine our experience. Take it from me, decision making the most important activity we’ll ever engage in. Everything else stems from our decisions. He who leads, excels or succeeds does so based on decisions. The only measurable output of your thinking is your decision. Once again  however, our curriculum does not arm us at any level with how to make decisions.

“Whenever you see a successful business, someone once made a courageous decision.” – Peter Drucker (Management Guru)

This reminds me of the story of an economic adviser to a great king. This king always relied on his adviser to help him with his economically oriented decisions, but typical of all economists, the adviser will offer him a detailed analysis of why to do things in a certain way on one hand, and reasons why he can do it the other way on the other hand. The king would need to make a decision, and at the end of the day will hear two possibilities, one version on one hand, and the other on the other hand. This got the king really frustrated, and anxious to end his persistent confusion. The king thought long and hard, and finally came up with a decision that is indeed the mother of all decisions. The decision that will help him simplify his decision making process. After he did that, his life became simple, and he became successful.

What did he do? Simple, he asked that the economists left hand be amputated! That way, the economist only presents one hand, and there is no other hand. 🙂

We need to employ a system that helps us make great decisions. Our decision making paradigm has the greatest impact on our lives. The first thing you need to do, is amputate one of your hands… figuratively that is.

1. Decide now for all the decisions you need to make.

It actually sounds funny, but if you wait till the pressure of the moment to decide what your stand will be, you will go in the direction of the lowest denominator. You will always go for what is easier, and more short term. Have a long term approach to decisions. When you decide your values, you limit your options and technically amputate some possibilities. Don’t wait till the exam day to decide if you’ll cheat or not, don’t wait till the opportunity to lie comes before you decide. Decide long before you decide. The further your decision is from the event, the stronger your resolve. If you need to pause to think about anything, if you need to pray before you know what your decision is, then pause thoroughly and rather form convictions rather than take impulsive decisions.

“Chance favors the prepared mind” – Louis Pasteur

2. Maintain a Clear Midterm to Longterm Vision.

When a man sets out of his house, the bus he boards, the direction he faces and the side of the road he stays is not decided on his whims, it’s decided because he first purposed a destination in his heart. Our immediates are ruled and governed by our ultimates. When you have a clear destination in mind, you can take your decisions by simply consulting your destination. Will what I am doing now help me achieve my objective? Decision making becomes easy when you have a clear picture of where you are going. Small wonder visionless, and purposeless people vacillate between making up their minds. Grab a journal and document your vision, get a glimpse of 20yrs from now, and form a 1-2yr plan. When you head out with your car at night, the light doesn’t see as far as the end of the road, but it sees far enough to get you to the next level that helps you see further. You are in trouble without a vision. Form one!

“Give to us clear vision that we may know where to stand and what to stand for – because unless we stand for something, we shall fall for anything” -Peter Marshall

3. Get Guidance

The greatest guide available to man, is God! We are limited by time, God is not! We do not know the future, he does. There is no greater or better guidance than for a man to submit himself to the word of God and to the Holy Spirit. When you have God guiding you, all you need to do is be in communion, move and he’ll guide. You also need to get guidance from people who have had experience before you. In the multitude of counselors there is safety. If you get to that unforseen crossroad in life where it’s difficult to consult your convictions or your vision, ask. Don’t rely strictly on your knowledge and efforts. It’s not weakness to ask, it’s wisdom!

“The secret of success is to ask” – Unknown

Adeolu Akinyemi

Adeolu Akinyemi

19 thoughts on “How to Make Decisions”

  1. JesusFreak
    September 12, 2009 at 10:59 am

    Powerful!

    Having done all the above, I seriously need guidance.

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  2. Segun Akande
    September 12, 2009 at 12:20 pm

    Right on target, as usual!

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  3. Okoromoba Otome Elisha
    September 12, 2009 at 3:19 pm

    This is indeed a powerful recipee for decision making. If a lot of people can but read this, I am sure there will be life transformations as i am sure that over 70% of people have problem with making decision. Infact this is good, please put it in the daily newspaper, because our leaders and citizens alike need it extremely.Thank you.

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  5. TREVIS
    September 12, 2009 at 7:38 pm

    This is timely! Our decisions determines our destination.Thank you sir

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  6. CFA
    September 12, 2009 at 10:47 pm

    Our decisions will make or mar us – the complacent decisions we have made as Nigerians is hurting us today! Well said Sir.

    http://cfa.com.ng

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  7. Omooba
    September 13, 2009 at 10:34 pm

    Great piece! Thanks.

    It is mot weakness to seek help and counsel. God bless.

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  8. Elias Dongyen
    September 14, 2009 at 8:27 am

    Your words of inspirations are inded GREAT! Each time I read your message of hope, my hope continues to grow. You are indeed a professional counsellor

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  9. Tunde Ayeni
    September 14, 2009 at 8:55 am

    Hi,
    No matter the decision, only God gives thougth/tongue an answer. As such, every decision shld be backed with commensurable faith. One can only prepare an Horse for a battle, but safety belong to JAH.

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  10. Toyin Arogbonlo
    September 14, 2009 at 10:01 am

    Thanks for this, its really inspiring and I think whatever we want to do in life, its important we take a position and pursue it. Time wiat for no one my brethren.

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  11. Benji
    September 14, 2009 at 2:04 pm

    I like it. You’re quotes are very well placed and supportive to what you’re saying. I agree, everything stems from decisions, not only well-planned decisions, but what we decide to do what life throws us a curve.

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  12. dollyp
    September 14, 2009 at 7:59 pm

    a very good one.rememberin your words at “beyond ife” makes it a perfect package.thank you for your efforts to change lives.

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  13. OMOZELE
    September 15, 2009 at 10:39 am

    true words. we are the product of the decisions we have made. either you are a success or a failure is based on the choices and decisions you have made. some because of the pressure they are under, take decisions without doing much thinking and oftentime, such decisions would be regretted. our country also is where she is today because of the wrong decisions our leaders have made.may God help us to seek wise counsel and also to be fully matured when it comes to decision making.

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  14. Ogu
    September 15, 2009 at 2:44 pm

    Thank you for this Indeed, one’s environment influences his/her thinking and behaviour. An average Nigerian is myopic and gets associated with most ventures just for the immediate financial benefit and forgetting the long-term benefit.. Money should be seen as a means to an end and not an end in itself.
    In an effort to identify my core identify, I closely understudied the success secrets of one of the successful businessmen in Nigeria. I discovered that he was also human, falling and rising, has a dodged spirit with an ability to leverage on people’s skills to attain greatness. I also discovered something which is common to most businessmen in Nigeria – greed and not realizing that the sky is wide enough to accommodate everyone.

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  15. Fawibe Obafemi
    September 19, 2009 at 12:55 pm

    May God help us,
    @omozele: we can right the wrongs if we decide to do good. our nation is in such a deplorable state because the leaders themselves had no good personal development skills while they were young. A man who can not manage his personal finances can not manage a nation's resources.

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  16. lekan olajide
    October 3, 2009 at 1:22 pm

    You keep blowing our mind,well done sir.
    regards to ola

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  17. alex
    November 16, 2009 at 3:38 pm

    let us all pray that we will always be able to make the right decision at the right time

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  18. alex
    November 16, 2009 at 3:41 pm

    decisions is a thing of the mind

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  19. Ayodeji Adewunmi
    December 24, 2009 at 6:27 pm

    Hmmm…decisions are so powerful. Thanks for sharing

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