“The future is always uncertain, but uncertainty can either paralyse us or propel us forward. The choice is ours.” – Jennifer Ritchie Payette.
There are moments in life, and even seasons, when the path ahead appears hazy, leaving us pondering what steps to take. These times can be challenging and exasperating. What should we do when the future seems obscure? Perhaps you’ve applied for a course, but the acceptance letter hasn’t arrived, or you’ve been interviewed for a job, but the response is still pending. In these situations, how can you fill your days when the future feels clouded?
1. Embrace the Present Moment: Rather than fixating on an uncertain future, immerse yourself in the present moment. Practice mindfulness and fully engage in what you can control and influence right now. By embracing the present, you can make the most of your current circumstances and discover joy and fulfilment in the here and now.
2. Seek Knowledge and Information: Even in uncertain times, seek out relevant knowledge and information that can guide your decisions. Stay informed about trends, industry developments, and current events that may impact your situation. This understanding will provide clarity, enabling you to make more informed choices.
3. Focus on Personal Development: Use periods of uncertainty as opportunities for personal growth and development. Invest in learning new skills, expanding your knowledge, and improving yourself. This commitment to self-improvement will enhance your resilience and open up new possibilities, regardless of future outcomes.
4. Seek Support and Guidance: Reach out to mentors, trusted friends, or professionals who can offer guidance and support. Their perspectives and experiences can provide valuable insights, helping you navigate uncertainty more effectively. Consider seeking advice from experts in relevant fields to gain clarity and direction.
5. Set Short-Term Goals: Instead of attempting to plan far into the future, establish short-term goals that are achievable and within your control. Break down larger objectives into manageable tasks that you can work on. By focusing on attainable milestones, you can make progress despite the uncertainties that lie ahead.
6. Maintain a Positive Mindset: Cultivate an optimistic outlook and focus on possibilities rather than limitations. While the future may be unclear, maintaining a positive mindset empowers you to approach challenges with resilience and creativity.
7. Trust in a God: Surrender the need for absolute control over every situation and trust in God. Acknowledge that there are aspects of life beyond our understanding, and find solace in the guidance and wisdom that surpasses our limited perspective. As Currie ten Boom aptly stated, “When a train goes through a tunnel, and it gets dark, you don’t throw away the ticket and jump off. You sit still and trust the engineer.” Place your trust in something greater than yourself.
Take comfort in the words of Margaret Drabble: “When nothing is sure, everything is possible.” Let uncertain times not dampen your motivation or deter you from taking action. Even without clarity, options still abound.
Kind Regards,
Adeolu Akinyemi.
