Aches of Joy
As I write this article, my leg aches, my hands have wounds and my head hurts. I sustained some injuries 3 days ago, and I long to always look back at the scars. Yes you read that right, I long to always look back at the origin of those scars, the events surrounding it are memorable.
Thursday last week, I travelled back to Ilorin, precisely Federal Government College Ilorin my Alma Mata. I went back after 14yrs, invited as the guest speaker in the school’s 35th Founder’s day Celebration. When I entered the school gate, I felt a bit shocked, the school had not improved since I left it 14yrs ago but had actually deteriorated. I went round the school, recounting the story of my childhood to my colleagues that went with me, also preparing to address the crowd of 800+ students and their teachers. My objective was to ensure that by the time I left Ilorin the students’ passion for academic excellence would have improved visibly. This objective was well achieved by the time we left Ilorin, and even though I have these aches, I am glad I made myself available.
Going back to FGC Ilorin made the proposition of Mrs Oby Ezekwesili make a lot more sense to me. Interested PTAs, Old Boys associations or the private sector need to urgently get interested in these schools. These schools are breaking down, both physically and academically. Why? Because they are not properly funded and because nobody is willing to take responsibility for them. I have decided to take responsibility for academic excellence in FGC Ilorin, if we all do the same for all our secondary schools we can make a lot happen.
At times I wonder if we really have rich people in Nigeria, if our rich people are financially free, or if they have financial intelligence, but that is the topic for another day. My agenda in FGC Ilorin was simple, you can use it as a template for making things to happen in your own Alma Mata.
1. I gave them a rousing and motivational speech for about 1hr 30 mins. The senior boarding house master responded after the speech that he had never seen the students so attentive in their lives, while one of the senior officers in the school commented that he had not seen so much concentration from the teachers. The speech was practical, graphic and interesting. The title was 10%. I shared my story as a student with them, and the events that made me resolve to always be amongst the top 10% anywhere I found myself.
2. I gave the school 2 computers for the computer room. I explained to them how I believed that in other to stay relevant in today’s world, they need to develop computer skills. Rather than talk about it alone, I decided to contribute my own little quota to their computer skills development.
3. I instituted a Deolu Akinyemi Academic Excellence Award, and gave awards to the best 3 students in each set. The top 3 students in each category were announced and celebrated by their contemporaries. They all came forward to receive a handshake and their certificates. I also instituted and Excellence Award for Innovation, Sportsmanship and Leadership, these were given to the best students in other areas apart from academics.
4. I instituted a scholarship award for the overall best student in each class. I gave them my word to uphold this every year by God’s grace.
5. I ordered for brand new executive cars from the best hotel in Kwara State to come and pick the top 11 students and two of their teachers. Together we drove around so their mates could see them, we gave them two minutes to bid farewell to their colleagues, as they went with my team to the Kwara Hotel. At the Kwara hotel, we spent 6hrs together. They had opportunities to interact with myself and my team, asked questions, had buffet lunch, cocktail for dinner and played Robert Kiyosaki’s Cashflow 101 with me. The game and interaction lasted for 7hrs, and they were all returned back to their hostels by 11pm. They had the time of their lives, and I could see in their eyes, that they were going to remain first third in their class, or die trying. Their teachers who went with us also felt very grateful for the opportunity. They had been equipped to take their financial destinies in their hands and they really felt special.
By the next morning, I had the privilege of meeting one of the parents of the students of FGC Ilorin. She told me that her son told her about my speech the previous day, she mentioned that the son summarized all that happened in one phrase –“It’s very important to face one’s studies”
In case you are wondering what in all this is responsible for my aches, well, it’s quite simple. I decided to participate in the Old boys 50meters dash. Poised to win, and give the race my best, I took off with a great start ahead of all the others, I pushed myself, perhaps a little to hard to fast, and I lost balance and fell with a big thud. I got up, and finished the race, took a look at myself, I was brown all over, with blood flowing from my feet, bruises on my head and blood on both hands. I had secured some mild injuries. I still have the aches, but I’m certain they cannot outlive the joy of seeing those young 11 top students revving to be their best ever.
I might not be able to save all the seashells that got thrown away into dry land, but I can make all the difference to a few, and who knows… the world might join me! All that I did did not cost me up to my monthly salary 2yrs ago while in paid employment, we don’t need to be very rich before we add value.

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Hey Deolu,
Giving back to our alma mater. It’s something everyone should get involved in. You should get involved in USOSA … the association of all Federal Government Colleges. Incidentally they had a meeting in calabar the same weekend you were in Ilorin. No wahala, I will keep you informed. You try oh. Keep up the good works.
Its always joy to give to a mainingful curse, well done man
Congrats,
It great to know that you giving back to your society,and i must commend your effort.Your leaving a legacy for our generation to come.
Good mornig Deolu,
You are a great man! May the good Lord continue to inspire and empower you.
You are a model and a beacon of hope to this generation.
“Posterity (and also GOD) will always judge a man not by his worth (i.e the size of his bank account or CV) but by his relevance to life (and His kingdom)”-Royal_Prince. A food 4 thought to our Nigerian millionaires and leaders alike.
Luv u!
You are a real blessing to our world.
GOD bless you and your family abundantly. GOD will heal all the aches and scars speedily in JESUS name.
Thanks alot for giving our younger ones hope.
Cheers!!!
Welldone,you are setting the pace for others in the society to follow.The Lord will surely reward you and heal your bruise easily.
Deolu you are a great inspiration to us o. am too sure those lives can’t remain the same.
Thanks for being a blessing
praise
Chairman,
you know as i read the mail you forwarded to me from the FGCI student, all i could think about was the post “I wept”
keep showing us relevance and responsibility sir, we are following close behind
Helloo Deolu, you are such a role model, this is very lovely, impressive and inspiring. I thank God for your life, you are setting a great pace, don’t worry you are not alone, many of us will follow suit very soon, keep up the great work.
Lovely Deolu, lovely! The seeds you have sown in those lives will bring a harvest that would bring u to tears of joy…keep it up! May God’s hand remain upon you to bless and favour u.
Beautiful!!! You’re a pacesetter already. May God grant those of us who which to follow suit the enablement to do so. We are solidly praying tirelessly for you. Keep up the good work.
Deolu……………..
Deoluuuuuuuuu……………..
What manner of man are you. See…….you are always doing new inspirational things every blessed day that i can’t just have enough of you. Please keep it up……..You really are a motivation for me……….Go ahead……..Don’t stop……….
What a constructive idea.My first day with you at the inaguration of NNC made me to believe in your dream.Indeed u are a man of charity and that is one of the keys to greatness.I salute ur passion,compassion and vision.Keep up the great feats
Whenever i feel i am getting close, i see more things you do and new goals or should i say new heights are set again for me to overcome… you will keep being an inspiration to us all… or at least to me.
I was privileged to be there and before Chairman’s fall he was leading and he finished the race which tells a lot about his personality.
God bless you Sir for the impact u have in our world
your impact on the lives of the children will never be forgotten.
Thank you for taking such a lead. I hope others take a cue and the old boys’/girls’/students’ in most of these schools move from being just networks to being networks that work.
Wish you as always the very best
Dear Deolu, I must commend you on your zeal to contribute to the advancement in human lives. we are only remembered by what we have done. I hope I can join your team to get this work done. You can contact me on 08036670623
Deolu,
Thanks for the good work and your kindness to FGCI.
I was in FGCI between 1985 and 1991; and your article brought back fond memories.I’ve read several articles on your site to date and i must commend all you’ve been doing so far.
Keep it up! and stay blessed.
Deolu, generations will remember your name